Cocktail hour for the Spray Can families...We really like to be with "People Like Us". It makes us feel comfy and understood. I think you can learn a lot from a place of comfy and understood. But, I also know that when I am mis-understood lots of things become clear to me as I work on my defense. When I have to explaim myself in different ways, I learn more about Who I Am. Resistance is a place of Growth.