Latches
I think we all have latches..somewhere inside. There are places deep within that we want to keep safe and treasured.
Some people have those little hook type locks on their inner door. One good push will pretty much get you inside. Show some patience and gratitude, mix in some major curiosity with 2 parts tenacity and you can be assured of gettting in.
Some people have tumbler locks , where just the right amount of gentle wiggling and deep feeling can persuade the cautious to open up.
Some folks have the complete SoHo Do'-Lock assembly with tumblers, a dead-bolt and a bar rammed across the jamb.
Which one are You?